Marriage means to meld two into one. It means to mix them up. But oil and water do not mix, and marriages without separation of powers is not ever, ever going to stand. Who is in charge of the family? Who is in charge of the household? Did you work out the specifics of the marriage before you started, or did you just say, “I wub oo?” Then you have no foundation.
First, build a foundation and assign tasks. Build a set of rules and then become your own person with responsibilities. Assign tasks and for God’s sake, don’t do them for him! Doing so rips his cahones off. Then rebuild on the new foundation.
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